<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of eureka mind</title><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of eureka mind</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>Os ki boond ...</title><description><![CDATA[<BR><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><font size="4"><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"></font><font style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255); font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" size="4"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);">Os ki boondon ne li kaisi angrai hai</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0);">lagta hai ki aaj samandar mein nahai hai</span><br></span></font><br><font style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255); font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" size="4"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 153, 0);">hawa bhi hai kuch bekhud si, kuch alsaai si<br></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);">jaise kaale baadlon sang aalingan kar aai hai</span><br><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);">sajni ke aankhon mein aaj chamak hai ajab si</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0);">lagta hai saajan ke aane ki khabar aai hai</span><br></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 153, 0);"><br>bhawrein ne dekho pankh fadfadaya hai apna<br>Kahin koi kali phool ban itraai hai</span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);">  </span><br><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);">tere chehre se jaalim nazar hi nahin hat.ti</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);">ye kaun si muskaan aaj tu odh aayi hai.</span></font><span style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 102, 0);"></span><br><br>                 <span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">           - Sunil Gupta</span></span><br><br><br><br><font style="font-style: italic;" size="1"><br style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">(Photo Source: Internet)</span></font><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/36/7e736c95be0813800a2400fba406340e/homep/images/1214426958">]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 00:41:12 +0530</pubDate><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/06/26/Os-ki-boond.html</link></item><item><title>Hasratein ...</title><description><![CDATA[<BR><font style="font-weight: bold; font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; color: rgb(153, 51, 153); font-style: italic;" size="4"><br><br>Hai hasrat yehi ki...<br>    phir tumse mulaakat ho,<br><br>Gar lab rahein khamosh...<br>    to nazron se baat ho,<br><br>Manzil mil hi jaaye...<br>    koi zaroori to nahin,<br><br>Par jab tak rahe safar...<br>    bas tumhara saath ho.</font><br><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);"><br>                        - Sunil Gupta</span><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><font style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);" size="1">(Photo source: Internet)</font><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/36/7e736c95be0813800a2400fba406340e/homep/images/1214034270">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2008 13:06:54 +0530</pubDate><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/06/21/Hasratein.html</link></item><item><title>Intezaar ...</title><description><![CDATA[<BR><div style="text-align: justify;"><font style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" size="4"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>Intezaar ki ghadiyaan khatm nahin hoti</span></font><font style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" size="4"><br style="font-weight: bold; font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono;"></font><font style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" size="4"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Tere pyar ka samandar gehraata jaata hai</span></font><font style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" size="4"><br style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono;"></font><font style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" size="4"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></font><font style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" size="4"><br style="font-weight: bold; font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono;"></font><font style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" size="4"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span><span style="font-weight: bold;">Main bas doobta chala jaata hoon</span></font><font style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" size="4"><br style="font-weight: bold; font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono;"></font><font style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" size="4"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Koi patwaar haath na aata hai.</span></font><br></div><br><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;">                                                               -<font size="2">  <span style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono;">Sunil Gupta</span></font></span></font><br><br><br><br><br><font style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" size="1">(Photo courtesy: Nilesh J. Bhange, Source : Internet )</font><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/36/7e736c95be0813800a2400fba406340e/homep/images/1213176058">]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 14:43:28 +0530</pubDate><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/06/11/Intezaar.html</link></item><item><title>The child in you...</title><description><![CDATA[<br><h3 style="text-align: right;" class="post-title"><br>    </h3><br>	 <br>    <br><br>    <br><br>      <p><br>      </p><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" size="3"><font style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);" size="5"><br></font></font><div style="text-align: justify;"><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" size="3"><font style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);" size="5">A</font>s an adult we always say that our childhood has gone and then we go to the memory lane and live that time again. But what I want to say that childhood surely goes with the time but not the child in you. It remains within you, always. </font><br><br><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" size="3">As we grow, we learn to inhibit our childish behaviour to the extent of our age. Sometimes we inhibit it due to our elders' pressure and sometimes to avoid annoyance by people. But it is a bit natural that what is lie within you will come out now and then in various other ways. </font><br><br><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" size="3">Surely, you have noticed it that when we are among the children we behave like them and play quite naturally and easily with them. A child doesn't change his behaviour according to the person he is interacting with. He shows his same natural behaviour to everyone, whether the person is elder or younger to him. But as we become older we learn to behave differently with different person and here our mind plays the major role. We call it maturity [.<em>with respect</em>]. </font><br><br><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" size="3">We don't notice that we are lacking emotional release which is quite natural and necessary to soothe our mind and for inner peace. During our childhood we used to laugh and cry by very simple reasons but as an adult, when we want to cry, we don't and when we want to laugh, we simply smile. For an adult, to cry is taken as a part of weak personality, especially for men. </font><br><br><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" size="3">This constant suppression of emotions leads to some other psychological problems like anxiety, depression etc. Nowadays, we are seeing that "<em>laughing clubs</em>" are becoming popular among adults and over-aged people in various societies. It is the outcome of our mechanical life. Here people deliberately laughs together without any reason. But in real life, when they have reasons to do so, they hesitates.</font><br><br><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" size="3">yeah..sometimes we could not resist to show our childish behaviour, especially when we are among the friends and also with our parents. The reason, perhaps, "to err is human" [. <em>laughs</em>].</font><br><br><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);" size="3">so, if we try to make our life less mechanical and let allow the child in us to come out time to time, we would be able to make our life more interesting and lively.</font><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">                                                                                                                         </span><br><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"></span></div><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="color: rgb(192, 192, 192);"></span><font size="2"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);">- Sunil Gupta</span></font></span><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);"><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><br><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><font style="color: rgb(51, 153, 153);" size="2"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">p.s.&gt; </span><em style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">For the convenience of my writing i have choosen masculine gender. But my thoughts are equally applicable to both the genders.</span><br><br><font size="1"><br style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono;"><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono;">(Photo courtesy: Arijit ; Source: Internet)</span></font></em></font><br><br><br><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/36/7e736c95be0813800a2400fba406340e/homep/images/1212440849">]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 02:01:47 +0530</pubDate><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/06/03/The-child-in-you.html</link></item><item><title>Madhoshi ...</title><description><![CDATA[<br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(102, 51, 51); font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" size="4">Un hawaon ne mujhe ...<br>        madhosh kar diya<br><br>Jo tumhe chchu kar ...<br>        mujh tak aayi hain<br><br>Hosh mein tab bhi nahi tha ...<br>        jab tumhare kareeb tha<br><br>Hosh mein ab bhi nahi jab ...<br>        tumhari yadon ne baahein failayi hain.</font><br><br><font style="font-weight: bold; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);" size="2">                                                                       - Sunil Gupta<br><br><br><br><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-style: italic;" size="1">(Photo courtesy: Elena Kalis)</font><br></font><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/36/7e736c95be0813800a2400fba406340e/homep/images/1212095505">]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 01:07:00 +0530</pubDate><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/30/Madhoshi.html</link></item><item><title>Har Pal Tere Naam ...</title><description><![CDATA[<BR><div style="text-align: left; font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 51, 51); font-weight: bold;"><font size="4"><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">Jin palon mein tum mere saath nahi hoti</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">vey  kyon meri jindagi mein aate hain</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><br style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">yaadon ke uthte bawandar </span><br style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"></font></div><font style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; color: rgb(102, 51, 51);" size="4"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">kyon aa aakar mujhe satate hain</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">har waqt tumhe dil sochta hai</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">har pal tere naam ho jaate hain</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">tumhari khushboo saanson mein basti hai</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">tumhare ehsaas chu chu se jaate hain</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">in faaslon ki chubhan kuch aisi hai</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 102);"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 51, 51);"><span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 102);">bas aankein nam kar jaate hai</span><br><br style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);"></span><font style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);" size="2"><span style="font-weight: bold;">                                  - Sunil Gupta</span></font><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 51, 51);"><br> <br><br><font size="1"><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">(Photo courtesy :"Photo Love"-asya)</span></font></span></font><br><br><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/36/7e736c95be0813800a2400fba406340e/homep/images/1211441989">]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 17:02:32 +0530</pubDate><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/15/Har-Pal-Tere-Naam.html</link></item><item><title>Yaadon Ki Tapish ...</title><description><![CDATA[<BR><font style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102);" size="4"><font style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono;" size="4"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">dheere dheere ...haule haule ...</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">sarakta hai ye pal</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">koi hawa to chale</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">jo ise raftaar de</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">dhadkane jo dhadakti hain</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">ye to unki hain</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">meri to kabki bikhar gayi ... tootkar</span><br style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">unki yaadon ki tapish mein.</span></font></font><br><font style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-weight: bold;" size="2"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">                                                     - Sunil Gupta<br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><font style="font-style: italic; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" size="1">(Photo courtesy: Maxfield Parrish, Source: Internet)</font></span></font><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/36/7e736c95be0813800a2400fba406340e/homep/images/1212476013">]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 16:02:09 +0530</pubDate><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/13/Yaadon-Ki-Tapish.html</link></item><item><title>Humsafar ...</title><description><![CDATA[<br><font style="font-style: italic; font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; color: rgb(204, 102, 0); font-weight: bold;" size="4"><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>Tumhare khoobsurat aankhon ki ...<br>    nami churaane aaya hoon,<br><br>Pyar jo dil mein hai...<br>    sab tujhpar lootane aaya hoon,<br><br>Char pal jindagi ki...<br>    jindagi  si  lage,<br><br>Isliye tujhe apna ...<br>    humsafar banane aaya hoon.</font><font size="2"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"></span></font><br><br><font style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);" size="2"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">                                                             - Sunil Gupta</span></font><br><br><br><br><font style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);" size="1">(Photo courtesy: Smith)</font><br><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/36/7e736c95be0813800a2400fba406340e/homep/images/1211541718">]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 11:23:03 +0530</pubDate><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/12/Humsafar.html</link></item><item><title>Dhoondh Leta Hoon ...</title><description><![CDATA[<font style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" size="4"><span style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-weight: bold;"><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>Unki chahat ko...<br>    ankhon mein dhoondh leta hoon</span><br style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-weight: bold;"><br>Unki khushboo ko...<br>    saanson mein dhoondh leta hoon</span><br style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-weight: bold;"><br>Mujhe dekhkar Jab ...<br>    mushkura deti hai woh</span><br style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; font-weight: bold;"><br>Us pal mein main ...<br>    jindagi dhoondh leta hoon.</span><br></font><br><font style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);" size="2">                                                             - Sunil Gupta</font><br><br><br><br><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 102); font-style: italic;"></span><br><font style="font-style: italic; font-family: Courier New,Courier,mono; color: rgb(153, 153, 153);" size="1">(Photo of - Ann-Margret, Photographer - Unknown)</font><br><br><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/36/7e736c95be0813800a2400fba406340e/homep/images/1211919060">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 13:49:32 +0530</pubDate><link>http://kahiankahi.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/03/Dhoondh-Leta-Hoon.html</link></item></channel></rss>